Q: last year my friend and i went on a camping trip, this year we're going on another one but since her parents are friends with this guy's parents so they are coming too. they thought it would be "fun" but now that it's getting closer (4 days away) im having.... images of him running down the beach in his bathing suite. YUCK! can i have some survivol tips for me and my friend?
A: Don't tease the boy, it's just wrong. If you aren't interested in him romantically don't try to lead him on and set him straight right away by making some statement about the sort of boys or men you do like so he'll know he has absolutely no chance and he ought to focus on anyone else besides you and your friend. I guarantee he won't be hanging around if he knows you like something out of his league or that he's not interested in. Otherwise he might spend his entire vacation fantasizing about getting one or both of you alone, since you'll be living together or nearby, for a snog.